The uber chic Rocco Forte hotel chain acquired the Torre Maizza a few years back and has done ample renovations in a traditional/contemporary style. It is now a 5 star hotel with 40 rooms, most of which are situated along its golf course. It is an intimate and picturesque option for a three day wedding buyout with about 60-100 guests, most of whom can stay onsite.
You can see from the photos of all three masserie above that the outward appearance is similar – large, boxy, white buildings. Since they were originally built as rural, multi purpose farmhouses, almost all are situated inland. Some of the best, and all those that I recommend above, are within walking distance to the the sea and have their own beach clubs.